Our Mum is showing signs of vascular dementia. Until recently we as a family looked after her at home along with careers who came in 6 times a day.
Mum was taken into a care home when she started refusing help from the careers, she also became unsafe. As a family we just couldn't cope.
Every day we visit but Mum is just weeping all the time. It's heartbreaking to see.
Mum thinks there's nothing wrong with her. Mum was in bed for 8 months prior to going into care. Mum couldn't and wouldn't get up from her bed. Now she is up and dressed every day. Mum wouldn't bathe or shower at home, now she is clean.
As a family we are so upset to see Mum so unhappy and thinks that we don't love her or want her home. Explaining why she can't be at home leads to her getting even more upset. We don't know what to say for the best.
Mum was taken into a care home when she started refusing help from the careers, she also became unsafe. As a family we just couldn't cope.
Every day we visit but Mum is just weeping all the time. It's heartbreaking to see.
Mum thinks there's nothing wrong with her. Mum was in bed for 8 months prior to going into care. Mum couldn't and wouldn't get up from her bed. Now she is up and dressed every day. Mum wouldn't bathe or shower at home, now she is clean.
As a family we are so upset to see Mum so unhappy and thinks that we don't love her or want her home. Explaining why she can't be at home leads to her getting even more upset. We don't know what to say for the best.