Hello Everyone. My mum is in a care home and she has end stage Alzheimer's. She's in a very bad way and is very underweight and frail. She eats very little, and I fully understand that this is par for the course for someone at this late stage of dementia. She does, however, enjoy her nutritional supplement shakes - if she didn't have these, I've no doubt that she would no longer be with us.
My concern is that mum hasn't had her teeth cleaned for 2 years (since she first went into the care home). This is because mum has challenging behaviour issues, particularly around personal care, and is combative/non-compliant when carers attempt to clean her teeth. As a result, they have given up trying. I'm sure that mum must have some degree of decay, pain/soreness in her mouth which may well be affecting her desire and ability to eat and chew. Mum is still able to swallow at the moment, as she has no problem with liquids and her shakes. However, mum holds food of a more solid consistency in her mouth for long periods of time before regurgitating it.
Since being in the care home, mum has never seen a dentist. She was referred to SALT on 13th February, but she still hasn't been seen by them due to a backlog. No other steps have been taken by the care home to look into mum's oral health and hygiene. Apart from the difficulties with chewing, if mum has pain in her mouth caused by decay, this will also cause her distress and subsequent behavioural issues. I have raised the issue with carers and the manager on a number of occasions, but nothing happens.
In addition to all of this, mum is still being offered normal consistency meals, despite my repeated suggestions to offer meals of a soft consistency. Only yesterday, whilst I was at the care home, mum was presented with battered cod and chips, followed by apple pie. She refused to eat any of it and was given a shake instead.
I'd be interested to hear from other TP members regarding their experiences with this issue. Am I expecting too much of the care home?
Thank you for reading.
My concern is that mum hasn't had her teeth cleaned for 2 years (since she first went into the care home). This is because mum has challenging behaviour issues, particularly around personal care, and is combative/non-compliant when carers attempt to clean her teeth. As a result, they have given up trying. I'm sure that mum must have some degree of decay, pain/soreness in her mouth which may well be affecting her desire and ability to eat and chew. Mum is still able to swallow at the moment, as she has no problem with liquids and her shakes. However, mum holds food of a more solid consistency in her mouth for long periods of time before regurgitating it.
Since being in the care home, mum has never seen a dentist. She was referred to SALT on 13th February, but she still hasn't been seen by them due to a backlog. No other steps have been taken by the care home to look into mum's oral health and hygiene. Apart from the difficulties with chewing, if mum has pain in her mouth caused by decay, this will also cause her distress and subsequent behavioural issues. I have raised the issue with carers and the manager on a number of occasions, but nothing happens.
In addition to all of this, mum is still being offered normal consistency meals, despite my repeated suggestions to offer meals of a soft consistency. Only yesterday, whilst I was at the care home, mum was presented with battered cod and chips, followed by apple pie. She refused to eat any of it and was given a shake instead.
I'd be interested to hear from other TP members regarding their experiences with this issue. Am I expecting too much of the care home?
Thank you for reading.