Hi
last year my sibling reported me for financial/physical abuse of my PWD who lives with me after mum decided she wanted no contact (years of animosity between them ), adult safeguarding duly came the next day and did their own investigation ,all ok and they were happy . Next I had a letter from OPG telling me they were going to do an investigation, duly filled out all info , Mum had capacity assesment and she completely went to pot and wouldn’t answer him , refused to tell him my name , really went badly . Just received letter from OPG a year later to ask would I be willing to apply to become mums deputy ? They will then send my completed cop4 form to court along with their papers . They are going to apply to court to validate Lpa and I will be invited to join the proceedings I will fill in the form , I’m guessing this is for if /when they remove my Lpa we would go straight on to a deputyship ? Would they invite my sibling to be a deputy too ? So many questions . I presume I can continue as I am for now with paying for her day centre ? I have kept all receipts and kept notes and can account for every penny I have spent . Also she has I agree now lost capacity but she DID understand what she was asking me to do as her attorney and dad didn’t trust sibling with money Or mum and asked me to never leave mum alone with them . Also mums certificate provider has now been to memory clinic and awaiting brain scan for confirmation of Dementia .... will he be asked to go to court , it’s a horrible mess ! Any advice greatly appreciated .
last year my sibling reported me for financial/physical abuse of my PWD who lives with me after mum decided she wanted no contact (years of animosity between them ), adult safeguarding duly came the next day and did their own investigation ,all ok and they were happy . Next I had a letter from OPG telling me they were going to do an investigation, duly filled out all info , Mum had capacity assesment and she completely went to pot and wouldn’t answer him , refused to tell him my name , really went badly . Just received letter from OPG a year later to ask would I be willing to apply to become mums deputy ? They will then send my completed cop4 form to court along with their papers . They are going to apply to court to validate Lpa and I will be invited to join the proceedings I will fill in the form , I’m guessing this is for if /when they remove my Lpa we would go straight on to a deputyship ? Would they invite my sibling to be a deputy too ? So many questions . I presume I can continue as I am for now with paying for her day centre ? I have kept all receipts and kept notes and can account for every penny I have spent . Also she has I agree now lost capacity but she DID understand what she was asking me to do as her attorney and dad didn’t trust sibling with money Or mum and asked me to never leave mum alone with them . Also mums certificate provider has now been to memory clinic and awaiting brain scan for confirmation of Dementia .... will he be asked to go to court , it’s a horrible mess ! Any advice greatly appreciated .