We have recently moved mum from emi residential care to a mixed nursing home, after mum's fall resulting in broken hip at Christmas she has been catheterised due to urine retention. On a number of occasions she removed the catheter herself during the night The district nurse was needed to replace which meant a long wait, often not arriving until 4:30 in the afternoon. So the decision was made to move her.
We have found a nice home where she is settling in better than expected but has been getting quite upset because 'mummy' and 'daddy' have not visited her. In the past she has asked how they were and had I seen them to which I would say they were fine buts its too hot/cold for them to venture out which seemed to settle her but this time she is just so sad that they dont come to see her (shes 88 next week) Any ideas on what I can say to help her over this.
We have found a nice home where she is settling in better than expected but has been getting quite upset because 'mummy' and 'daddy' have not visited her. In the past she has asked how they were and had I seen them to which I would say they were fine buts its too hot/cold for them to venture out which seemed to settle her but this time she is just so sad that they dont come to see her (shes 88 next week) Any ideas on what I can say to help her over this.