I will get straight to it. Any suggestions regarding night time routine. The reasons for asking this question is as follows:-
Background - my brother and I are primary carers for our mother. Diagnosed last August with vascular dementia. We currently have carers in twice a day during the week for half an hour morning and lunch time. At the weekend as I do not work I get mum up, last weekend it took me an hour each day to get her dressed and downstairs. Not easy. We decided to increase the morning time to 45 minutes and bring the carers in to get her up at the weekend. Hopefully we will start the weekend care this weekend in the morning for 30 minutes. The care company are having trouble scheduling 45 minute calls at the moment.
Any way, I have just come in from one of my two evenings out a week and I found mum out of bed, dressed (jumper inside out though) and making her bed. I have just put her back to bed. Would not changed back into her nightie and by the way I am the baddie in this!!!!! Usually goes to sleep with the light on so I insisted this was switched off.
Questions - whilst it is easy enough to get mum upstairs. How do we get her to bed at a reasonable time? Can potter about for an hour or so before getting into bed. Is then too tired to put her nightie on. Sleeps with the light on. Do not think this is helping her sleep routine. How do we deal with this? Getting up in the night other than to go to the toilet ie getting dressed, pottering about, etc.
Anyone who does not get enough sleep even without dementia suffers. I am keen that we nip this problem well in the bud before it starts to affect us all. Is there anyone out there who has been through this and has real practical solutions.
Background - my brother and I are primary carers for our mother. Diagnosed last August with vascular dementia. We currently have carers in twice a day during the week for half an hour morning and lunch time. At the weekend as I do not work I get mum up, last weekend it took me an hour each day to get her dressed and downstairs. Not easy. We decided to increase the morning time to 45 minutes and bring the carers in to get her up at the weekend. Hopefully we will start the weekend care this weekend in the morning for 30 minutes. The care company are having trouble scheduling 45 minute calls at the moment.
Any way, I have just come in from one of my two evenings out a week and I found mum out of bed, dressed (jumper inside out though) and making her bed. I have just put her back to bed. Would not changed back into her nightie and by the way I am the baddie in this!!!!! Usually goes to sleep with the light on so I insisted this was switched off.
Questions - whilst it is easy enough to get mum upstairs. How do we get her to bed at a reasonable time? Can potter about for an hour or so before getting into bed. Is then too tired to put her nightie on. Sleeps with the light on. Do not think this is helping her sleep routine. How do we deal with this? Getting up in the night other than to go to the toilet ie getting dressed, pottering about, etc.
Anyone who does not get enough sleep even without dementia suffers. I am keen that we nip this problem well in the bud before it starts to affect us all. Is there anyone out there who has been through this and has real practical solutions.