Hi, has anyone any tips how to manage this, it happens every 2 or 3 nights, I get my mum to wear an incontinence pad and I have an undersheet that absorbs up to 3 litres under the bedsheet. If she wees it is soaked by morning. If she wakes up wet in the small hours, she does not realise she can change the bed and her clothes, so she gets dressed and wants me to join her for breakfast. In hospitals, night nurses can check patients every 2 hours or so, but I cant, it will wreck me! A night carer from an agency will be more expensive than a nursing home. Is there any tip out there for me please? Or is a nursing home the inevitable next step?