Has anyone had as much trouble as me when accompanying their husband/wife to hospital appointments during the Covid period? My husband was diagnosed with mild dementia four years ago, recently the hospital questioned his capacity to give consent for a camera test, with just cause Because he couldn’t tell them why he was, what procedure he was having, what complications could occur despite me going over this umpteen times with him and me thinking I had won that battle. The hospital didn’t take any notice at all that I could the sign form on his behalf because he has got LPA for H&W, drawn up by a solicitor and ratified by the court of protection plus it had been logged with said hospital beforehand too. What is the point of doing this if, when it is needed ,the NHS takes no notice of it? My GP referred him back to mental health services to be reassessed. Her referral came back as “not appropriate”. Another thing is, why are households like mine not allowed to form support bubbles because there are two of us living here? We both need support, my family are happy to supply it but we want to do that within the law. Both of us suffer from serious health issues, we both need support and I need to be able to have a fluent conversation at least once a day and preferably, not on the phone each time. Come on NHS, let’s see you doing more to support carers.