My elderly mum, who is 96, has Vascular Denemtia. Following a relatively short stay in hospital, she has now arrived at a respite care home, where she's going to receive some help with her mobilty over a six-week period, to establish whether she might be able to return to her own home. Having been 'on call' since before Christmas, when she became poorly and paying almost daily visits to look after her needs, then followed by more recent daily hospital visits, it's suddenly a very different scenario for me and my family to find her in a home, where she is receiving a concentrated level of care.
Inevitably, as will frequently tend to happen for Dementia patients, being in hospital and care homes is a confusing and disorientating experience and I wonder if anyone has any feedback on what might be put in place to help with the feelings and emotions, which mum will be experiencing? As all this has happened quite suddenly I am still feeling as though I should be making daily visits - but others have said that this isn't necessarily the best approach and that mum should be given the time to settle in to her new surroundings. I would be very grateful to receive any views or opinions about this in particular - and any other advice about making the life of a loved one less confusing and disorientating in a care home?
Inevitably, as will frequently tend to happen for Dementia patients, being in hospital and care homes is a confusing and disorientating experience and I wonder if anyone has any feedback on what might be put in place to help with the feelings and emotions, which mum will be experiencing? As all this has happened quite suddenly I am still feeling as though I should be making daily visits - but others have said that this isn't necessarily the best approach and that mum should be given the time to settle in to her new surroundings. I would be very grateful to receive any views or opinions about this in particular - and any other advice about making the life of a loved one less confusing and disorientating in a care home?