Hi,
I’m new to the forum as have just registered. I have found reading some of the posts really helpful and comforting to know I am not alone in how I am feeling as Dads carer. It’s been a really stressful time and am feeling every emotion going whilst trying to juggle a stressful job in mental health and my own illnesses. I do feel really burnt out but Dad is refusing to go in a care home and now his carers are saying they can’t meet his needs so it is falling to me and my Brother. I am finding myself feeling so angry all the time and don’t really like the bitter person I have become. I find it really hard to be around people in general at the moment as feel so isolated and that no one really cares they just carry on. I’m in my 30s, haven’t even had a chance to start a family of my own because of fertility issues/illness and didn’t sign up for this. I don’t feel like I have any time for myself anymore and fear it’s going to get worse before it gets better and don’t know some days if I have the strength to deal with it. I’m hoping speaking out on the forum may help as don’t feel I can speak out in everyday life without feeling judged.
I’m new to the forum as have just registered. I have found reading some of the posts really helpful and comforting to know I am not alone in how I am feeling as Dads carer. It’s been a really stressful time and am feeling every emotion going whilst trying to juggle a stressful job in mental health and my own illnesses. I do feel really burnt out but Dad is refusing to go in a care home and now his carers are saying they can’t meet his needs so it is falling to me and my Brother. I am finding myself feeling so angry all the time and don’t really like the bitter person I have become. I find it really hard to be around people in general at the moment as feel so isolated and that no one really cares they just carry on. I’m in my 30s, haven’t even had a chance to start a family of my own because of fertility issues/illness and didn’t sign up for this. I don’t feel like I have any time for myself anymore and fear it’s going to get worse before it gets better and don’t know some days if I have the strength to deal with it. I’m hoping speaking out on the forum may help as don’t feel I can speak out in everyday life without feeling judged.