Hi everyone, my dad who just turned 85 has been living with me and my partner for 2.5 years in Wales. I’ve noticed a big decline in his memory the last year and due to other medical issues clouding any potential diagnosis (iron deficiency, TIA, upper GI tract bleeds etc) taken me over 9 months to get to the stage where the GP finally agreed there is cognitive impairment not due to any physical illnesses. He’s been referred to a memory assessment clinic but there’s a wait involved. And at the moment we are at the stage where he is not safe to be left alone in my opinion such as leaving taps running, gas hob on but does not see the danger in doing these things (gets defensive about it even though I’m as gentle and tactful as I can be when talking with him about these things). I also am a carer for my mum who lives almost 300 miles away lives alone and lost her eyesight 2 years ago. So my time is spent as equally as I can going back and forth between them both (when I’m not at home my partner looks after my dad). I just wondered if there’s an agencies or organisations anyone knows of that may be able to offer some practical advice and maybe some emotional support for me too. It’s extremely hard watching someone you love decline and I just want my dad to be safe and as happy as he can possibly be. Thanks for reading and sorry for the long post xx