Hi.
I'm looking for advice regarding my dad. He's nearly 70 and lives alone.
My sister and I have noticed that he's becoming more and more forgetful, and when I read the symptoms on this website, several were relevant to him.
He forgets people names, forgets very recent events (inc a harrowing family incident involving the police), doesn't join in group conversations (will just sit and listen) and is quite aggressive and short tempered.
He's recently moved, and I believe he still drives via his old house as he cant work out new routes from his new house even though we've lived in the same area for decades.
He's retired but volunteers at his old work.
He constantly repeats stories and tells us the same things over and over.
His wife died over 8 years ago, and his grief is prolonged but aggressive, like he's p***ed off with the world.
He's got poor hearing and we thought that he was missing conversation which is why he didn't understand what was going on or being said, but he's now got hearing aids but still doesn't seem to pick everything up.
He doesn't cook for himself, instead he eats out every day (we think this is why he's volunteering at his old work, so he can eat there)
Does it sound like we should have concerns?
He recently told us that he arrived home the other day to find the kettle was hot, like someone had been in the house, and it must have been a ghost. We guess he put the kettle on and just forgot. We find it baffling that he believes a ghost is more likely than him realising he'd forgotten doing it.
Any advice? Do we need to contact his dr? We don't want to worry our dad unnecessarily.
Thanks for reading, sorry for long post.
I'm looking for advice regarding my dad. He's nearly 70 and lives alone.
My sister and I have noticed that he's becoming more and more forgetful, and when I read the symptoms on this website, several were relevant to him.
He forgets people names, forgets very recent events (inc a harrowing family incident involving the police), doesn't join in group conversations (will just sit and listen) and is quite aggressive and short tempered.
He's recently moved, and I believe he still drives via his old house as he cant work out new routes from his new house even though we've lived in the same area for decades.
He's retired but volunteers at his old work.
He constantly repeats stories and tells us the same things over and over.
His wife died over 8 years ago, and his grief is prolonged but aggressive, like he's p***ed off with the world.
He's got poor hearing and we thought that he was missing conversation which is why he didn't understand what was going on or being said, but he's now got hearing aids but still doesn't seem to pick everything up.
He doesn't cook for himself, instead he eats out every day (we think this is why he's volunteering at his old work, so he can eat there)
Does it sound like we should have concerns?
He recently told us that he arrived home the other day to find the kettle was hot, like someone had been in the house, and it must have been a ghost. We guess he put the kettle on and just forgot. We find it baffling that he believes a ghost is more likely than him realising he'd forgotten doing it.
Any advice? Do we need to contact his dr? We don't want to worry our dad unnecessarily.
Thanks for reading, sorry for long post.