My mother is in a care home and my sister has financial power of attorney over her. The other day I noticed my mothers wedding ring was missing. I mentioned it to the staff and they found it a couple of days later. They then gave the ring to my sister as staff say she is next of kin and is family whereas I am not. I am not happy about this as I assumed that staff would keep the ring in the office safe until my mother passed away. I am not allowed to view my mothers care plan and when my mother is unwell am the second point of contact after my sister.
I think the system is so unfair. I am not even allowed to take my own mother out of the care home without being accompanied by a member of staff who then go back and make false or exaggerated reports about my behaviour so I have long since abandoned taking my mother out as I cannot trust staff members.
Can anyone please offer me any advice as to what my rights are as daughter?
Many thanks
I think the system is so unfair. I am not even allowed to take my own mother out of the care home without being accompanied by a member of staff who then go back and make false or exaggerated reports about my behaviour so I have long since abandoned taking my mother out as I cannot trust staff members.
Can anyone please offer me any advice as to what my rights are as daughter?
Many thanks