I'm Still Doing Well!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi ladies, and Kal D, Suzanne and Christy.........
My update is that I've never managed to get out dancing because every time I'm due to go Mum miraculously feels ill........... so I've given up on going out in the evening when she clearly doesn't want me to, even though she claims that she doesn't mind. So, being determined not to give up on something for me, I had a re-think.....
Recently, in one of her many 'silent treatment' episodes, Mum decided to ask her friend to take over much of what I have been doing for her each day, running her around in the car Monday to Friday to visit Dad at the home, and her hairdressers etc. She still allows me to take her to all of her medical appointments though, and I'm always around for any visits from professionals. I know she thought she was punishing me, and that she hasn't realised it's setting me free for 'me time'.
So, I thought that since I cannot get out in the evenings without feeling guilty, I will get out lots during the daytime while Mum is out...... but all of my friends work, so I was left wondering what I could do during the daytime when I am free.
So after a lot of thought, 2 weeks tomorrow, I got myself a puppy and she will be the answer to all of my prayers. From the day I got Sparkle, I have not felt remotely lonely or isolated, she is a complete and utter joy and takes the focus for me from Mum!!!! And as soon as I can take her out, I'll be walking her in the huge and beautiful park close to my home when Mum is out every day..... Sparkle has literally turned my life around in less than two weeks, I look forward to my days and evenings, my baby girl gives me a reason to wake up every day!!!! She is just what the doctor would have ordered!!!
So, I'm feeling better than ever!!!
And so much of that is due to the wonderful support on this site. Everyone who have replied to my original post made the difference between my feeling like I had nothing left to live for, to giving me much needed 'hope', and I can never thank everyone enough, yet again (this is becoming a habit... ha ha), this still and always will be from my heart.
Hugs to all as always Ang xxxxxx