I am torn. My mum passed away in April, she was my dad's carer at their home. Dad had to go to a care home when she went into hospital and now this will be permanent . The funeral is next Tuesday, it's taken ages to arrange for a number of reasons. At the moment I have decided that dad should not be at the funeral. This is because he will not understand why he is there and that mum is gone, and we won't be able to help him, hug him and reassure him in anyway due to the covid rules, also he is being shielded due to covid and I don't think he will be allowed out of the care home. I'm struggling to convince myself that I am doing the right thing. Mum and dad were married for over 60 years, it seems so wrong that he can't say his goodbyes. Apart from my own grieving for losing my mum, the dilemma is so painful.
Has anyone been through this, I don't know what to do
Has anyone been through this, I don't know what to do