Mum died just over a week ago. Her funeral is next Thursday. I am quite worried about what's going to happen to my thought processes after the funeral. I am still very busy arranging things and sorting out her flat. Relatives are coming from near and far but are all going back to whence they came on the day after the funeral. I will then be alone and without a mum, a flat to clear, a funeral to arrange, phone calls to make. I know I have to fill my time but somethings got a hold of me and I can't see how, what, where, when or why. I guess I know it's going to hit me then and I feel so mithered about it. I know I am not the first and won't be the last to have to go through this. How did you all cope?