Hello everyone, my name is Sylvie and I live and work since 20 years in Liverpool. But I am German. My German mother has dementia and this Christmas it got so bad I had to move her into a care home in Germany. It’s so hard. They now say she needs palliative care because her dementia is so advanced. I argued with everyone over there, at some stage I even wanted to bring her to the UK. I did manage with German family courts thought to get aterny for her because I am the only relative. I see her as much as possible but now she can’t even answer the phone often. I called today and the carer gave her the phone. She did she loved me, but pretty much everything else she said was just a confused mush. I love her so much and I miss her so much, I wish I could see her more often.