My mom is causing lots of problems firstly she's had all the tests scans etc. and has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's she flatly refuses to accept this and gets very angry if anyone mentions it, the consultant has tried she is on medication.
My dad passed away 20 years ago I have always been there for her nursed her through cancer COPD etc my dad always dealt with all the financial side of things so she asked me to take over when he died. Since oct last year she has now accused me of steeling from her its been terrible my brother is now involved and he knows that what mom is saying is incorrect. she has even been to the bank accusing me she thinks I have cards to her accounts and know her pin numbers which I don't and the bank have confirmed all of this to her. I now get abusive phone calls from her so I don't answer the phone at home and its got to the stage I worry about her being outside my house when I get home from work. I used to see her every day but I hadn't seen her for weeks till this Saturday when I meet up with her with my brother and my husband at her bank, but she hasn't changed still accused me of taking her money and when I left she shouted at me down the road asking for her bank cards the next morning she rang and spoke to my husband saying she is going to the police about me. I'm quite happy if she does this but I know you cannot reason with her and I think she wouldn't believe them when they confirmed she was wrong I'm so upset about it all I'm so tired all I want to do is help her
My dad passed away 20 years ago I have always been there for her nursed her through cancer COPD etc my dad always dealt with all the financial side of things so she asked me to take over when he died. Since oct last year she has now accused me of steeling from her its been terrible my brother is now involved and he knows that what mom is saying is incorrect. she has even been to the bank accusing me she thinks I have cards to her accounts and know her pin numbers which I don't and the bank have confirmed all of this to her. I now get abusive phone calls from her so I don't answer the phone at home and its got to the stage I worry about her being outside my house when I get home from work. I used to see her every day but I hadn't seen her for weeks till this Saturday when I meet up with her with my brother and my husband at her bank, but she hasn't changed still accused me of taking her money and when I left she shouted at me down the road asking for her bank cards the next morning she rang and spoke to my husband saying she is going to the police about me. I'm quite happy if she does this but I know you cannot reason with her and I think she wouldn't believe them when they confirmed she was wrong I'm so upset about it all I'm so tired all I want to do is help her
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