1. Sweettibbz

    Sweettibbz New member

    Oct 16, 2017
    7
    How do you cope when your loved one calls you names. It’s really upset me today I know it’s not her fault. Just feel really down today.
     
  2. Bunpoots

    Bunpoots Registered User

    Apr 1, 2016
    2,686
    Nottinghamshire
    Hi @Sweettibbz

    I didn’t experience this first hand as my dad always went for my daughter (he would have been mortified if he’d been himself) but it was horrible to see. I used to tell dad off and keep my daughter away from him and eventually it passed.

    Is there anyone who could do this for you? If not I suggest telling your LO that such language is not acceptable and walk away. If she has any awareness it may stop the behaviour - it did with dad - although he’d never admit he was wrong he behaved better when we saw him again.

    I’m not surprised you’re feeling down. I used to come and rant on here when things got too much for me. It helped.
     
  3. canary

    canary Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    9,663
    Female
    South coast
    I say "if you are going to be like that im not going to listen" and I walk out - usually just into the garden and after 10 mins I come back and make some coffee.
     
  4. Sweettibbz

    Sweettibbz New member

    Oct 16, 2017
    7
    Thank you. I also come on here to have a moan about things. It just helps to get it off you chest.
     
  5. nellbelles

    nellbelles Volunteer Host

    Nov 6, 2008
    8,255
    leicester
    Hello @Sweettibbz I’m glad you have found the forum and that you feel comfortable letting off steam here..
    I hope you will continue to post for support
     

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