I had sharp chest pains and back pain last week, I was on floor in agony thinking this is it, I'm on my way out, lasted 40 minutes and I kept saying to myself I've got to ring 999 but knew no-one except me is there for my Mum, so I didn't ring. It passed after 40 minutes. Anyhow I went to my GP who went ballistic and said I should have rung 999 and went on about how many people have a tiny rash or a pain in their toe and waste his time whilst genuine patients put up with more major things. Anyhow the upshot is I've had an ECG - apparently it will still record whether or not you've had a heart attack. I've had an inflamed gallbladder since 2007 and I do now suffer with permanent mid back pain, tender tummy, constant burping, ache under right bottom rib (which I know is gallbladder) and feel full when I've only eaten a small amount. Still waiting for all the blood test results. Rang surgery on Friday to ask results of ECG (I had to walk them round to surgery), my GP not in Friday and I suppose it wasn't that urgent for another GP to actually read the print-out and let me know! Gave Mum good wash down this morning. Went home, had bath when phone rings. Ignored it, bath over, went into Mum's she had wet herself (this is happening more frequently now), washed, changed her again. Was it her that rang me, she doesn't know, but it was when I dialled 1471 on my phone. I wrote to SS two weeks ago to tell them that I am having 5 days away on 2nd Sept and they will need to be first in line if there is an emergency in my absence as I'm sole carer. Have I heard from them, of course not! Not sure what I do now, but I do know that if my health is now deteriorating to the extent that I simply cannot care for her anymore, I will have no choice but to put her into residential care, whether she likes it or not, and she won't, believe me she won't! It's just getting all too much for me now, because she's such a awkward, short-fused difficult person and that's before she had AD. She just moans, moans, moans, and when I tell her I don't feel very well, she ignores me and just says how terrible she feels (she's always had to be top dog, all my life she's been like this). Suggestions welcome as feeling very sorry for myself today and I can't snap out of it. I'm actually seeing a solicitor next Thursday to get my Will written up.