Well hello and welcome Wendy. My wife got early onset too and it does come with its own problems. When people saw my wife, mid 50's and didn't look her age the last thing you'd think was AZ.
Our youngest was still at home age 16 at the time and by then it got so bad we packed him off to live with his big sister.
Have a read around the site here always someone here to listen/read whichever. K