Has this happened to anyone else?
My ex girlfriend of 7 years who had over the years helped out with my Dad over the years as his dementia got slowly worse, he couldn’t cook, use the tv remote, bills etc
Many many other typical dementia issues as well
We split in Xmas 2015 and my Dad said to me is it ok if she helps him out still?
I said of course as I know how important it is to keep continuity as my Mother had died of Alkzeimers back in Feb 2014
My ex and mines relationship became strained when I started seeing someone else about May 2016 and I was working away in Denmark (first job I’d taken in 9 months as I was always having to help Dad out and couldn’t find work locally)
Anyway the bottom line is she basically hassled and wore him down till eventually she took him to a registrars office and married him in Nov 2016 and didn’t tell me until Xmas eve
It’s a absolute joke that this cannot be against the law in some way? I’ve written to my MP, to care charities the lot but it just seems it’s exceptable to marry a vulnerable person with dementia
Anyone else have this problem who know someone who has had this happen to them?
Dad passed away on the 26th October and now I’m not allowed in the house as all his possessions now belong to her! Family photos, memories, Mums things, it’s an absolute joke!
My ex girlfriend of 7 years who had over the years helped out with my Dad over the years as his dementia got slowly worse, he couldn’t cook, use the tv remote, bills etc
Many many other typical dementia issues as well
We split in Xmas 2015 and my Dad said to me is it ok if she helps him out still?
I said of course as I know how important it is to keep continuity as my Mother had died of Alkzeimers back in Feb 2014
My ex and mines relationship became strained when I started seeing someone else about May 2016 and I was working away in Denmark (first job I’d taken in 9 months as I was always having to help Dad out and couldn’t find work locally)
Anyway the bottom line is she basically hassled and wore him down till eventually she took him to a registrars office and married him in Nov 2016 and didn’t tell me until Xmas eve
It’s a absolute joke that this cannot be against the law in some way? I’ve written to my MP, to care charities the lot but it just seems it’s exceptable to marry a vulnerable person with dementia
Anyone else have this problem who know someone who has had this happen to them?
Dad passed away on the 26th October and now I’m not allowed in the house as all his possessions now belong to her! Family photos, memories, Mums things, it’s an absolute joke!