I’ve joined the forum to look for information regarding help at home to see whether another people have found help that we’re looking for. My father jn law was diagnosed with vascular dementia a few years ago and scared for by his wife. Only now are we seeing difficulties and are worried it’s getting too much. He has difficulty in making himself understood, my mother in law is extremely good, but he is getting frustrated and upsets my mother in law. He isn’t poorly enough to stay in a care home but we’re considering a carer to pop in and help with washing etc or sitting with him whilst my mother In’law can have some me time. Has anyone had similar situation and was it a simple process to arrange.