Hi my name is Mark
My dad has terminal prostate cancer which he’s had for 8 years and within the last 6 months he has been diagnosed with dementia.
He has also been bed ridden for 16 months where he had a lot of falls. He has carers go in 4 times a day and go and see him 3 times a week.
I have found that every time we speak ends in an argument and he blames me for a lot of the problems financially and health. Within the last week I and social services managed to get him into a nursing home.
Within a day he had managed to insult everyone and been racist so they are looking to move him back home.
He never used to be this racist or volatile to people or me.
I just wondered what stage is his dementia do you think and how is best to deal with this as I don’t have any other family and I have a son who’s autistic who depends on me I am really at breaking point.
Can anyone advise.
Thanks
Mark
My dad has terminal prostate cancer which he’s had for 8 years and within the last 6 months he has been diagnosed with dementia.
He has also been bed ridden for 16 months where he had a lot of falls. He has carers go in 4 times a day and go and see him 3 times a week.
I have found that every time we speak ends in an argument and he blames me for a lot of the problems financially and health. Within the last week I and social services managed to get him into a nursing home.
Within a day he had managed to insult everyone and been racist so they are looking to move him back home.
He never used to be this racist or volatile to people or me.
I just wondered what stage is his dementia do you think and how is best to deal with this as I don’t have any other family and I have a son who’s autistic who depends on me I am really at breaking point.
Can anyone advise.
Thanks
Mark