Hello everyone
My dad was diagnosed with mild to moderate dementia 3 years ago. He has always been in total denial and recently is becoming increasingly angry and at times unreasonable. He has always been a very sharp and highly successful man who won't allow anyone to help him. He has been on medication to help his memory but we have asked for a review as he is having more bad days. My mum and I had to secretly meet with his GP last week ask her for a review. We know we need help but he won't hear of it. Getting POA is out of the question even though his doctor has suggested it several times. My mum talks to me a lot but she is angry and scared and I am finding it incredibly difficult to listen to her saying these things about my dad. How do you plan for the future and put things in place when someone is in complete denial? We need help but every time we suggest anything dad becomes aggressive. Any advice would be so welcome, this is heartbreaking.
Thank you.
My dad was diagnosed with mild to moderate dementia 3 years ago. He has always been in total denial and recently is becoming increasingly angry and at times unreasonable. He has always been a very sharp and highly successful man who won't allow anyone to help him. He has been on medication to help his memory but we have asked for a review as he is having more bad days. My mum and I had to secretly meet with his GP last week ask her for a review. We know we need help but he won't hear of it. Getting POA is out of the question even though his doctor has suggested it several times. My mum talks to me a lot but she is angry and scared and I am finding it incredibly difficult to listen to her saying these things about my dad. How do you plan for the future and put things in place when someone is in complete denial? We need help but every time we suggest anything dad becomes aggressive. Any advice would be so welcome, this is heartbreaking.
Thank you.