Hi everyone
Mums dementia is worsening,she’s become incontinent and opens her door at night looking for people to help her
She’s very dependant on me and although I share visiting with my brother she wants me all the time
She’s anxious and doesn’t want to be on her own and we’ve tried to explain that if she made the move to a care facility she’d be safe/ looked after and we could still visit as we do and take her out!
Sadly she’s having none of it, she calls me nasty and that I don’t care every time I leave
I’m having a dementia review tomorrow with her doctor and awaiting a Social Services assessment but goodness knows when that will be
I’m beginning to dread going to see her or take her out as she makes a scene every time I return her home
I really don’t know what I expect everyone to say but it helps writing how I feel
Mums dementia is worsening,she’s become incontinent and opens her door at night looking for people to help her
She’s very dependant on me and although I share visiting with my brother she wants me all the time
She’s anxious and doesn’t want to be on her own and we’ve tried to explain that if she made the move to a care facility she’d be safe/ looked after and we could still visit as we do and take her out!
Sadly she’s having none of it, she calls me nasty and that I don’t care every time I leave
I’m having a dementia review tomorrow with her doctor and awaiting a Social Services assessment but goodness knows when that will be
I’m beginning to dread going to see her or take her out as she makes a scene every time I return her home
I really don’t know what I expect everyone to say but it helps writing how I feel