When I went to see mum at the care home today she seemed so normal. She even told her friend that she was confused (the friend that is). I took my old springer spaniel to her her nanny and that was lovely to see. I know it doesn't happen but it was almost like she was better again and that she shouldn't really be there. Perhaps being there has improved her though and she doesnt seem anxious at all and that was one of her biggest issues. Its so hard to deal with this. She doesnt take any medication as everything she was prescribed didnt agree with her but she seems so much more alert than other people. I am now wondering if I did the right thing by placing her there!!!!