Morning
I was lulled into a false sense of security when I discussed with my mum about giving up driving she seemed to accept it and we discussed ways for her getting around to her different activities, however, it has been a real rollercoaster of a ride, lots of aggressive and angry phonecalls, wishing she was dead, etc. I can't give her the car back as she is just not safe.
But since then she seems to have taken a dip, and is more confused, she has got a walking holiday booked and she really doesn't want to go.
She rang me earlier hours one morning, saying she had a loose stomach and she was in a mess, so I drove up to see her and helped get cleaned up and cleaned her bathroom ending up staying over and getting up early to get to work. the worry for me is that she hadn't even made an effort in trying to clean it up, which I suppose is normal, and not that I mind doing anything for her.
After a rough day on Saturday with endless angry phone calls she came for the day on sunday and we had lovely day.
I do feel at times that I am sinking and don't know what to do for the best!! When she has good days she is brilliant, but the bad days are bad!
I was lulled into a false sense of security when I discussed with my mum about giving up driving she seemed to accept it and we discussed ways for her getting around to her different activities, however, it has been a real rollercoaster of a ride, lots of aggressive and angry phonecalls, wishing she was dead, etc. I can't give her the car back as she is just not safe.
But since then she seems to have taken a dip, and is more confused, she has got a walking holiday booked and she really doesn't want to go.
She rang me earlier hours one morning, saying she had a loose stomach and she was in a mess, so I drove up to see her and helped get cleaned up and cleaned her bathroom ending up staying over and getting up early to get to work. the worry for me is that she hadn't even made an effort in trying to clean it up, which I suppose is normal, and not that I mind doing anything for her.
After a rough day on Saturday with endless angry phone calls she came for the day on sunday and we had lovely day.
I do feel at times that I am sinking and don't know what to do for the best!! When she has good days she is brilliant, but the bad days are bad!