Thank you to everyone for your kindness,
I will not be contesting my mothers will, the money doesn't matter to me what hurt me was my brothers greed and manipulation of my mother ,he wasn't there for her when she needed him but now she's gone he's playing the I'm devastated card and pretending he was by her side constantly even claiming he organised the funeral which he didn't he never helped with anything he didn't even go to the chapel of rest to see her before she was cremated, but I am letting that all go mainly because firstly I know the truth and so does my father and I believe if mam is looking down so does she and secondly if I allow my anger at my brother to absorb my feelings then it sully everything else, in the end he may get money but I got so much more ,I realised something on the morning of her funeral that matters far more to me when I was born mam was the first person to kiss me and welcome me into the world and I was the last person to kiss her before she left this world no amount of money can replace that.