Hi my Mum was diagnosed with alzheimer's and vascular dementia in June 23 she is 79 and stays at home with my dad. My sister and I help my dad to look after her. My dad is 81 and wants to keep my mum at home as long as possible. The main problem we have is mu mum will not go upstairs now and this had been for 4 months now and sleeps on the couch sitting up, we have tried everything to get her too even lie down on the couch but she will not do it. Also my mum is crying all day and night. She has been put on anti psychotic tablets and sleeping tablets but only sleeps about 4/5 hours in a day and my dad is really struggling with lack of sleep himself and we are all worried about the crying from her . Don't know what is causing this as another relative had dementia and slept OK and didn't cry all the time and I know they can all have different things. Sorry I'm rambling a bit never been on a public forum before. Just overwhelmed with how quick she has declined and how sad it is with her crying and we have had her checked with the district nurse who comes in everyday to give her her insulin that she has nothing hurting her .