Hi
Hoping someone can offer some experience on care home funding.
My Mum lives in South Gloucestershire with my brother, who has lived with Mum his entire life and has been her official carer for at least the last five years.
She's been diagnosed with vascular dementia on top of numerous long-term complex health issues, he's been finding her care difficult for a while but a few weeks ago she had to be taken into hospital due to a medical emergency and is now in a nursing home under a 28 day assessment.
We met a social worker this week who says she now needs 24hr care in a nursing home and she will need to sell her house within 12 weeks to fund her care.
This house is my brothers home. He's not worked for years because he's been her full time carer, and he has no other family in the area. Selling the house will make him homeless. We don't have power of attorney making things even more complicated.
Can they do they force this? Do he have to lose his home to pay for her care? That feels like a real kick in the teeth having given up so much of his life to look after her.
He's neurodivergent and is understandably not coping with things very well right now and I'm trying to micro manage things as best I can from a distance.
Any advice/experience would be welcome.
Hoping someone can offer some experience on care home funding.
My Mum lives in South Gloucestershire with my brother, who has lived with Mum his entire life and has been her official carer for at least the last five years.
She's been diagnosed with vascular dementia on top of numerous long-term complex health issues, he's been finding her care difficult for a while but a few weeks ago she had to be taken into hospital due to a medical emergency and is now in a nursing home under a 28 day assessment.
We met a social worker this week who says she now needs 24hr care in a nursing home and she will need to sell her house within 12 weeks to fund her care.
This house is my brothers home. He's not worked for years because he's been her full time carer, and he has no other family in the area. Selling the house will make him homeless. We don't have power of attorney making things even more complicated.
Can they do they force this? Do he have to lose his home to pay for her care? That feels like a real kick in the teeth having given up so much of his life to look after her.
He's neurodivergent and is understandably not coping with things very well right now and I'm trying to micro manage things as best I can from a distance.
Any advice/experience would be welcome.