Hi there,
My Mum is in a nursing home with late stage mixed dementia (Alz + vascular). She was EOL last Sept but stabilised, but is now increasingly frail and bedbound.
Each time I see her I notice how much weight she is losing week on week, and the past three months she’s gone from 40kg to 30kg, losing the last 3kg in just 12 days. It’s shocking to see and I feel so helpless.
I have asked the nursing home how much she’s eating and they say she’s eating 3/4 to half of each meal and they’re fortifying her drinks. She is now so small in her bed when we visited this week I didn’t even see she was in the bed until I was really close.
I don’t know what I can do? Nursing home aren’t saying anything other than “yes she is losing weight” and I’ve asked for a GP to review her as I just feel so helpless. It is the most devastating thing to witness and I can’t bear to think of her losing any more weight.
I wonder if anyone can help who has been through this.
I’m aware that this maybe the final stage but want to make sure I am doing all I can.
Thank you
My Mum is in a nursing home with late stage mixed dementia (Alz + vascular). She was EOL last Sept but stabilised, but is now increasingly frail and bedbound.
Each time I see her I notice how much weight she is losing week on week, and the past three months she’s gone from 40kg to 30kg, losing the last 3kg in just 12 days. It’s shocking to see and I feel so helpless.
I have asked the nursing home how much she’s eating and they say she’s eating 3/4 to half of each meal and they’re fortifying her drinks. She is now so small in her bed when we visited this week I didn’t even see she was in the bed until I was really close.
I don’t know what I can do? Nursing home aren’t saying anything other than “yes she is losing weight” and I’ve asked for a GP to review her as I just feel so helpless. It is the most devastating thing to witness and I can’t bear to think of her losing any more weight.
I wonder if anyone can help who has been through this.
I’m aware that this maybe the final stage but want to make sure I am doing all I can.
Thank you