Hi all, my mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers earlier this year. Mum doesn't think there is anything wrong with her, and I try to keep things as normal as possible. She is still going about her usual morning routine of going out to have breakfast, and whilst out I think on a number of days goes to the post office.
She has a fixation on her money, which isn't really new. she likes to hold on to it and spends minimally. She has never been that great with managing her finances, and luckily her bills are all getting paid, though she doesn't seem to realise what she is even paying for by Direct Debit. She hides letters and bank statements, from looking at recent statement I found, I can see that she appears to be overdrawn more often than not. She has a small overdraft of £100, which I think has been covering the Direct Debits so nothing has flagged up because she has money often going in.
She frequently goes to the post office, to check her balance and if there is money there she will take it ALL out as much as is available to her. The post office is not her main place of banking. I worry for her safety and vulnerability carrying cash in large amounts, and despite agreeing for me to accompany her once a week, that hasn't quite worked out as she will still go before me or after me on another day. The other concern is where she puts the money she takes out. She is putting it somewhere she probably considers safe and I am worried that it could be in a random, odd place and one she may well forget about. I've tried to share my concerns with her, and I don't want her to think I am after her money, but I don't think she really gets it.
I guess I'm wondering what to do? Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks
Hol
She has a fixation on her money, which isn't really new. she likes to hold on to it and spends minimally. She has never been that great with managing her finances, and luckily her bills are all getting paid, though she doesn't seem to realise what she is even paying for by Direct Debit. She hides letters and bank statements, from looking at recent statement I found, I can see that she appears to be overdrawn more often than not. She has a small overdraft of £100, which I think has been covering the Direct Debits so nothing has flagged up because she has money often going in.
She frequently goes to the post office, to check her balance and if there is money there she will take it ALL out as much as is available to her. The post office is not her main place of banking. I worry for her safety and vulnerability carrying cash in large amounts, and despite agreeing for me to accompany her once a week, that hasn't quite worked out as she will still go before me or after me on another day. The other concern is where she puts the money she takes out. She is putting it somewhere she probably considers safe and I am worried that it could be in a random, odd place and one she may well forget about. I've tried to share my concerns with her, and I don't want her to think I am after her money, but I don't think she really gets it.
I guess I'm wondering what to do? Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks
Hol