OK, it has become necessary for my mum to move into a care home.
We have found what appears to be a nice place, with an overall Good CQC rating, and in an excellent position in the area where my mum has lived for 60+ years. We've visited several times, taken Mum along a couple of times, and she has been visited and assessed by the Home's manager. All the people we've met seem kind and friendly, including some of the residents.
They haven't given us a date for her to move in yet because they're doing some renovations, but it looks like she'll be there by the end of the month. I think she's actually quite looking forward to living somewhere where there will be other people to talk to, and she has been looking through the list of daily activities with quite a bit of excitement, so I think she'll enjoy having things to do and more stimulation. This is when she actually remembers about it - quite often she just forgets where she's been, but that's Alzheimers for you!
Anyway, what practical things do we need to think about? I live about 280 miles away, but have ended up doing most of the organisation of all this. So while I wait for the phone call and plan my next trip what should I be thinking about preparing for her. Even Mum says she'll need some new clothes, and she's not wrong! Some of the contents of her wardrobe has been there since before my Dad died in 1996! And they look it!
Any suggestions? Any thoughts about how often people should visit, especially in the first few weeks? I don't want to desert her there, but neither do I want to confuse her unnecessarily by constantly going in, then leaving her again. There are six of us siblings, plus some grandchildren, so she could have visitors all day every day!
We have found what appears to be a nice place, with an overall Good CQC rating, and in an excellent position in the area where my mum has lived for 60+ years. We've visited several times, taken Mum along a couple of times, and she has been visited and assessed by the Home's manager. All the people we've met seem kind and friendly, including some of the residents.
They haven't given us a date for her to move in yet because they're doing some renovations, but it looks like she'll be there by the end of the month. I think she's actually quite looking forward to living somewhere where there will be other people to talk to, and she has been looking through the list of daily activities with quite a bit of excitement, so I think she'll enjoy having things to do and more stimulation. This is when she actually remembers about it - quite often she just forgets where she's been, but that's Alzheimers for you!
Anyway, what practical things do we need to think about? I live about 280 miles away, but have ended up doing most of the organisation of all this. So while I wait for the phone call and plan my next trip what should I be thinking about preparing for her. Even Mum says she'll need some new clothes, and she's not wrong! Some of the contents of her wardrobe has been there since before my Dad died in 1996! And they look it!
Any suggestions? Any thoughts about how often people should visit, especially in the first few weeks? I don't want to desert her there, but neither do I want to confuse her unnecessarily by constantly going in, then leaving her again. There are six of us siblings, plus some grandchildren, so she could have visitors all day every day!