My mother in law has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. She is 78yrs old and so far this year she has lost her best friend/next door neighbour and the both her brother and husband a day after each other. We knew there was something wrong before the above happened, even 2-3yrs ago to be honest as when ever you asked her what she had done etc my father in law would always answer for her and it gradually got worse and worse. I don’t think Covid helped as they were locked up for so long. When her husband died that was what tipper her completely over the edge and she had a mental breakdown. It was unexpected even though he was 86 with cancer. She is currently in a home for her own safety as she kept wandering the streets and was petrified to be on her own at night phoning us 20/30 times a night saying someone was going to break in and attack her. We couldn’t get anymore locks on her windows and doors. When she first went in the home she tried to climb over the fence and kept trying to get out all the doors. She cried constantly and kept saying that her husband is at home waiting for her. It is so devastating to see. She has said a couple of times is she doesn’t get out she will kill herself. Another problem is she can’t be on her own. She gets up at 7:30am at the home and goes and sits with the manager who then gets staff to get her helping out doing things to keep her busy. She won’t just sit and watch tele or read. Is this all normal and just part of the illness? We are struggling to know what is the right thing to do. Any advice would be fantastic as to be honest, we helpless. Thank you.