Thought I might have had mum talked in to going to dementia psychologist ,but yesterday had a respite carer staying with her for a few hours and apparently they told mum not to have anything to do with them, so I guess I am back to square one.
I wonder if I should get angry and report this carer to their supervisors or just hope mum wont remember . ( what am I saying I am angry)
I suppose they mean well but I wonder if is is their job to advise my mum about going to doctors .
Has anyone else had a similar experience ?.
I think I will have to pretend that the visit is for me and ask her to come along( feel terrible about deceiving her)
Since mums fall she is very slow at walking and does so with the help of a walking stick or wheelie walker which she constantly forgets to use and I am always reminding her .
paris07
I wonder if I should get angry and report this carer to their supervisors or just hope mum wont remember . ( what am I saying I am angry)
I suppose they mean well but I wonder if is is their job to advise my mum about going to doctors .
Has anyone else had a similar experience ?.
I think I will have to pretend that the visit is for me and ask her to come along( feel terrible about deceiving her)
Since mums fall she is very slow at walking and does so with the help of a walking stick or wheelie walker which she constantly forgets to use and I am always reminding her .
paris07