Read a rather upsetting post last evening from someone who felt they were not getting support on the forum and wondering if they should have joined. Is it okay to post on the "Support for carers" to an individual by name? Only because in this case it sounded as though they were perhaps not picking up replies because they did not know where to find them ... The message was only going to be along the lines of "How are you to-day?" (Have sent a "Visitors Message" but if they don't know where to pick it up, they may continue to feel ignored.) Most posts are addressed to "all and sundry". Did not want to break any unwritten rules. Many thanks. Nan.