Hello,
For the kind people who’ve advised me over the past couple of months..an update:
I visited mum in the care home yesterday, again with my brother for support. Mum ran towards us when she saw us, frantic to be with us, shaking and crying. We were able to calm her but it’s clear that she’s struggling to settle ( 2 months now since she moved in). Staff say she walks round the building for a lot of the day. She’s got insight into the fact that she’s got memory problems and is especially worried about forgetting whether or not dad is alive (he is!) and our children’s names. She has an album of photos that she looks at a lot.
I’m wondering whether it’s worth trying some anti- anxiety medication for her from the GP and would very much appreciate your views.
As for me, I’m still finding this incredibly hard..to know her level of fear and distress is heartbreaking for me. It’s a comfort to know that I’m not alone in feeling like this.
For the kind people who’ve advised me over the past couple of months..an update:
I visited mum in the care home yesterday, again with my brother for support. Mum ran towards us when she saw us, frantic to be with us, shaking and crying. We were able to calm her but it’s clear that she’s struggling to settle ( 2 months now since she moved in). Staff say she walks round the building for a lot of the day. She’s got insight into the fact that she’s got memory problems and is especially worried about forgetting whether or not dad is alive (he is!) and our children’s names. She has an album of photos that she looks at a lot.
I’m wondering whether it’s worth trying some anti- anxiety medication for her from the GP and would very much appreciate your views.
As for me, I’m still finding this incredibly hard..to know her level of fear and distress is heartbreaking for me. It’s a comfort to know that I’m not alone in feeling like this.