Lisa dear, I understand how you feel, but please remember you are only human.
You are doing the very best for your mum, and these things are often not picked up immediately. What a good care home you found for your dear mum, and the carers reported, and action was taken, of their observations.
I am sure even your wonderful mum had her doubts as to her own ability at times over the years. I am sure now that everything will be done to keep your mum as well as is able.
(Lionel had heart attack a year after going into care. I was on holiday in Egypt. Such a shock to come back to, but well over two years later his heart is about the only organ not giving him problems.)
Please be as kind to yourself as you are to mum. Try to rest, you sound completely exhausted. Love n'hugs.
You are doing the very best for your mum, and these things are often not picked up immediately. What a good care home you found for your dear mum, and the carers reported, and action was taken, of their observations.
I am sure even your wonderful mum had her doubts as to her own ability at times over the years. I am sure now that everything will be done to keep your mum as well as is able.
(Lionel had heart attack a year after going into care. I was on holiday in Egypt. Such a shock to come back to, but well over two years later his heart is about the only organ not giving him problems.)
Please be as kind to yourself as you are to mum. Try to rest, you sound completely exhausted. Love n'hugs.