I would be inclined to go back and see the ramshackle care home, perhaps during the morning. people in later stages of dementia are often tired and snoozing in the afternoon and relatives often realise and dont visit then. I would always visit mum in the morning.
Bright, bustling care homes are lovely to look round and suit PWDs in the early stages, but people in later stages often cant cope with it and need routine and a quieter environment. Is it really dour, or is it just quiet and a bit shabby?
Go back and try and look at it through your dads eyes as they are now (not as they used to be) and see whether it would actually suit him.
Bright, bustling care homes are lovely to look round and suit PWDs in the early stages, but people in later stages often cant cope with it and need routine and a quieter environment. Is it really dour, or is it just quiet and a bit shabby?
Go back and try and look at it through your dads eyes as they are now (not as they used to be) and see whether it would actually suit him.