I've posted before that mum lives alone and gets very anxious when she's on her own. I go into her at least twice a day, spending in total something like four or five hours each day and she now goes to daycare twice a week. This is not great but it's OK whilst I'm waiting for power of attorney to come through when I can start to look at a care home (she'd be self funding).
Because she gets very anxious when she's on her own for any time, I have been leaving her notes explaining where I am and when I'm due back but it's becoming increasingly clear that she either doesn't understand the note or doesn't recognise or read it. When she can't contact me she believes I've had an accident and has started going out to look for me. Any tips on a simple way of getting a message across that all is well when I'm not there?
Because she gets very anxious when she's on her own for any time, I have been leaving her notes explaining where I am and when I'm due back but it's becoming increasingly clear that she either doesn't understand the note or doesn't recognise or read it. When she can't contact me she believes I've had an accident and has started going out to look for me. Any tips on a simple way of getting a message across that all is well when I'm not there?