Well so much has happened since Christmas eve. My brother had a call from mums care home to say that we would have to move her, as they can't cope with her now advanced AD. We found a new home at the beginning if the month and she moved in on the 8th February. This home is a dementia specialist home, and we told them that if they took her, it would be for the rest of her life as we didn't want to move her and upset her again.
Yesterday my brother had a call to say mum had fallen over, but no injuries. Doctor looked her over and all was OK. It seems she tried to get in her wheelchair, although she knows not to unaided, and the brakes weren't on. If you ever said no to mum she would always do the opposite because she knows better than anyone else. Now we've had a call to say she has fallen out of bed, by climbing round the rails. She has broken her hip, waiting for an ambulance.
Does anyone have any guidance as to how they will deal with this? She has advanced AD, will they operate. When my brother visited her last week he said she was coughing up green phlegm and was in bed and didn't get up when he arrived. She also said she was cold so he put another cover over her, and she was more concerned about her teddy getting cold as well, so he had to put a blanket on that as well.
She has never been a cuddly toy person so is this also a symptom of her declining health?
I feel completely out of my depth now and to be quite honest quite scared.
Yesterday my brother had a call to say mum had fallen over, but no injuries. Doctor looked her over and all was OK. It seems she tried to get in her wheelchair, although she knows not to unaided, and the brakes weren't on. If you ever said no to mum she would always do the opposite because she knows better than anyone else. Now we've had a call to say she has fallen out of bed, by climbing round the rails. She has broken her hip, waiting for an ambulance.
Does anyone have any guidance as to how they will deal with this? She has advanced AD, will they operate. When my brother visited her last week he said she was coughing up green phlegm and was in bed and didn't get up when he arrived. She also said she was cold so he put another cover over her, and she was more concerned about her teddy getting cold as well, so he had to put a blanket on that as well.
She has never been a cuddly toy person so is this also a symptom of her declining health?
I feel completely out of my depth now and to be quite honest quite scared.