I went to visit my mum with son and OH yesterday. I had planned to wait a week before seeing her, as I had explained I am going away on business (which I am, but not until tomorrow) but from the phone call I made on Friday, she seemed so settled I thought I would go anyway, as I figured she probably wouldn't remember my business trip story. Which she didn't. We went first up to her room where a part of me was worried she'd be sitting in there all lonesome but no - she wasn't in there. We then went down to the Lounge and there she was, happily sitting at a table chatting to one of the care attendants and another female resident. She was delighted to see us all, especially her grandson who lives away so she only sees him every few weeks. She introduced us to the care attendants and then offered to give us a tour of her new place, including her bedroom
All good news. Then we went back in the lounge and sat in some armchairs and the tea trolley came round. I got a cup of tea too - nobody ever makes me a cup of tea haha; I am always the one who has to do that job
She was absolutely fine and they told me she has been eating loads, no problems at night or getting up in the morning. She stays in the lounge all day with the others. She didnt mention her previous existence at all - has she forgotten it already??? The only slight hint was on several occasions she said
"I can't remember where I 've put some of my things" I said I 'd have a look for her. I presume she means some clothes or nicknacks I haven't yet brought, but she doesn't realise they are still back in her old flat. I will bring them a few at at time when I am back from my business trip and then they will magically reappear for her.
It has been just under a year since I joined this forum, when my mum was in the process of being diagnosed and I needed to find out how to organise home care visits. Such a journey, and I want to thank so much everyone on here for their patience and support. I hope now as well as asking, I can also respond to other's queries with the little experience I have gained.