Hello although this has been a difficult time for everyone, the past two months for my family have been doubly hard. My mum was admitted to hospital on 5th April 2020 two weeks into lockdown she suddenly couldn't walk, one of her feet was swollen her memory was terrible, she was wetting herself and they kept her in hospital. We only had the occasional phone call from a doctor to let us know how she was, although my dad spoke to her nearly every day. She was in hospital for 8 weeks and now is in a nursing home, that myself and my sister found for her. We have managed to see her as she is on ground level and has a patio so we do the social distancing.
My mum is completely bed bound, doubly incontinent her colour looks awful she looks so ill. She is sleeping all the time and has not eaten anything since arriving in the care home on 29th May so she is having build up milk shakes. Her fluid in take is very low but is still taking in bits. I feel exhausted as now my dad who cannot live without my mother has started to deteriorate in health because of the seperation so not only are we concerned over mum but also dad. I am not sure if my mother is at the end of this awful disease and how long this indignity can go on she looks so ill, how long can someone live without food and being bed bound ... the questions are numerous but my poor mother is dropping weight, watching this is so heartbreaking. I would love to hear any of your experiences .
My mum is completely bed bound, doubly incontinent her colour looks awful she looks so ill. She is sleeping all the time and has not eaten anything since arriving in the care home on 29th May so she is having build up milk shakes. Her fluid in take is very low but is still taking in bits. I feel exhausted as now my dad who cannot live without my mother has started to deteriorate in health because of the seperation so not only are we concerned over mum but also dad. I am not sure if my mother is at the end of this awful disease and how long this indignity can go on she looks so ill, how long can someone live without food and being bed bound ... the questions are numerous but my poor mother is dropping weight, watching this is so heartbreaking. I would love to hear any of your experiences .