Hi everyone, I’m new to this site.
Can I ask your opinions please? My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and Vascular dementia 4 years ago. She is almost 88. She lived with me until last year but is now in a nursing home. In the last year her weight has plummeted from 9 stone till 4 1/2 stone. She eats very little, is doubly incontinent. She can only walk a couple of steps then falls ( she refuses a frame or wheelchair). She usually talks gibberish and only a few words are clear enough to understand. She only recognises me .
For months she has coughed after eating and pockets food in her mouth. This last few days I’ve noticed she is making a gurgling sound in her throat.
She has a very robust DNR and it stated no CRP, ventilation or hospital admissions. Her GP says we are aiming just to keep her comfortable.
Do you think she is in the last few weeks or months as her BMi is 13 . Any advice would be helpful. To be honest she is so frail that I hope the end is quick and peaceful as she has no life now 😢
Can I ask your opinions please? My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and Vascular dementia 4 years ago. She is almost 88. She lived with me until last year but is now in a nursing home. In the last year her weight has plummeted from 9 stone till 4 1/2 stone. She eats very little, is doubly incontinent. She can only walk a couple of steps then falls ( she refuses a frame or wheelchair). She usually talks gibberish and only a few words are clear enough to understand. She only recognises me .
For months she has coughed after eating and pockets food in her mouth. This last few days I’ve noticed she is making a gurgling sound in her throat.
She has a very robust DNR and it stated no CRP, ventilation or hospital admissions. Her GP says we are aiming just to keep her comfortable.
Do you think she is in the last few weeks or months as her BMi is 13 . Any advice would be helpful. To be honest she is so frail that I hope the end is quick and peaceful as she has no life now 😢