mam has been rapidly getting worse, more forgetful and confused each day, often makes cup of tea without the tea bags, endless list of things she struggles with each day
she still lives at home and has carers 3 times a day.
yesterday she was missing for between 6-8 hours, i rang the police and made a missing person report, she turned up couple of hours later and told me she'd been to the place they keep the secrets!
today i took her out for a walk with the dog, i turned around and she'd opened her cardigan, she was naked underneath! i tried to get her to cover up and she got angry with me, saying she was wearing a bra and underskirt and two cardigans,
i made a phone call to her care manager today to ask for more help to delay putting her into a home, but really,,,when she clearly didnt realise she was naked i kinda knew it was time to get her into care,
i was later told she was wandering today and when she was asked her name she didnt know it.
i've known for a while that she will end up in a care home but kept thinking it was some time away...
i never thought this day would really come,
i want to be a hero and look after her myself but i know i cant handle it
i also dont wanna make that call...but its the right thing to do isnt it?
she still lives at home and has carers 3 times a day.
yesterday she was missing for between 6-8 hours, i rang the police and made a missing person report, she turned up couple of hours later and told me she'd been to the place they keep the secrets!
today i took her out for a walk with the dog, i turned around and she'd opened her cardigan, she was naked underneath! i tried to get her to cover up and she got angry with me, saying she was wearing a bra and underskirt and two cardigans,
i made a phone call to her care manager today to ask for more help to delay putting her into a home, but really,,,when she clearly didnt realise she was naked i kinda knew it was time to get her into care,
i was later told she was wandering today and when she was asked her name she didnt know it.
i've known for a while that she will end up in a care home but kept thinking it was some time away...
i never thought this day would really come,
i want to be a hero and look after her myself but i know i cant handle it
i also dont wanna make that call...but its the right thing to do isnt it?