I posted previously about how difficult it is to get my husband to wash regularly. I received many helpful replies. However, I tried some of them, such as using a foaming skin cleanser, but the crux of the matter is this. He simply refuses to take off his clothes. Currently he smells of stale urine. I have watched him and his bed, where he sits carefully and have never found any wet spots, so how this is happening, I don't know. Anyway, in another forum I mentioned my difficulty in getting him to wash and that I was considering permanent rest home care for him. I received a reply saying that if I can't get him to wash, they will probably have no more success in a rest home. Can anybody confirm this please?