Our invisible is so predictable. Doesn’t bother with his Mother except her Birthday and Christmas and has taken to giving us a day or two notice. Like he’s so busy and of course we’ll be here.
I’ve been expecting him to contact my Husband, we joked that he’d text tonight and he did slightly surprise me by calling but when Dave didn’t answer his mobile (he won’t call the landline in case I answer!) he sent a text asking if we were in for a Santa drop on Sunday and could he still drive here or did he need a boat.
Now here’s the bit I’m struggling with. I asked Dave to find out what time they were intending to come as I don’t want to see them and what I got back was “ don’t you think it’s time you stopped this”? I feel so angry with Husband for not supporting me with my feelings and letting his Brother walk all over him. He seems to think I’m acting like a child and should grow up. He doesn’t feel like he should tell his Brother to grow up and take some responsibility for his Mum.
There’s no part of me that wants to see BIL, SIL and their 2 teenage daughters and I’m angry with them that they’re going to distrupt Sunday, the only free day I have til Christmas and I’m angry that they’re causing us to argue with each other.
Rant over, thanks for being there, it helps just writing things down.
I’ve been expecting him to contact my Husband, we joked that he’d text tonight and he did slightly surprise me by calling but when Dave didn’t answer his mobile (he won’t call the landline in case I answer!) he sent a text asking if we were in for a Santa drop on Sunday and could he still drive here or did he need a boat.
Now here’s the bit I’m struggling with. I asked Dave to find out what time they were intending to come as I don’t want to see them and what I got back was “ don’t you think it’s time you stopped this”? I feel so angry with Husband for not supporting me with my feelings and letting his Brother walk all over him. He seems to think I’m acting like a child and should grow up. He doesn’t feel like he should tell his Brother to grow up and take some responsibility for his Mum.
There’s no part of me that wants to see BIL, SIL and their 2 teenage daughters and I’m angry with them that they’re going to distrupt Sunday, the only free day I have til Christmas and I’m angry that they’re causing us to argue with each other.
Rant over, thanks for being there, it helps just writing things down.