I have posted a few times about Mum who is now incontinent of urine and quite often faeces. I live in Scotland where personal care is 'free' but the incontinence service will only supply pads which Mum removes or nappy type pants which she also removes! The only things which have been successful are pull ups which I have been buying myself. The incontinence service have offered unisex washable pull ups which might be OK during the day - but will only give a max of 4 pairs - Mum goes through 4 pairs in a day! I am not too keen on using washable pull ups either as i will have to wash them and she frequently soils them making them badly stained. For night time I will still have to buy pull ups as the washable ones only hold a max of 500mls - she has been wearing pull ups which hold 2 litres at night. I know I am lucky that we get so much provided in Scotland and am grateful but wondered how everyone else copes with this level of incontinence.