I just wondered if anyone has any advice for me? my mum has vascular dementia she is has been in CH for a year now. We go to visit her every weekend, fortunately she does recognise me, doesn't say hello, but has soon has she sees me, she jumps up and says right lets get out of here. No matter where we take her within 5 mins she gets bored and wants to go back. Iv tried everything, taking her to see the grandkids,(her great grandkids) but she frightens them, until recently we used to take her to the cafe, she was happy with a cup of tea and cream cake, but sunday when we took her within 2 mins of sitting down she had stuffed all her cake in her mouth and drank her boiling hot tea and was demanding that we go home. When I told her to wait till we had finished , she was like a spoilt child, pushed her chair back and sulked, then jumped up, shouting and storming off, was very embarrassing to say the least. Im get very frustrated with her I dont seem to be able to do anything right at all. Is the Impatience a sigh of the illness?