I've done it again. I made the mistake of telling my mother that my cousin was coming to to take her out on Monday. She took it well at the time but now she has had time to ruminate, the agitation has started. I have already had 5 phone calls about it in an hour today, fussing about what time, etc, and forgetting which day, confusing it with me calling in tomorrow.....I should have waited until Sunday night to tell her! I don't know whether it's worth her having visitors and outings anymore it's such a hassle and she doesn't remember where she's been or who lives where so what's the point?